Saturday, February 11, 2012


In Honor of Valentine's Day, I wanted to Republish this Message from my teacher Joseph Russo, you can subscribe to his Thoughts to Live By: A Guide to Creative Consciousness or you can email him by clicking here

CREATING LASTING LOVE




When we feel a special ‘chemistry’ with someone we may be tempted to believe that we’ve met our soul-mate and fall helplessly in love. But this kind of uncontrollable romantic reaction is unpredictable, and if it happens is unlikely to last.


This is why dating can provoke high anxiety and why many romantic relationships soon struggle or fail, even if they start off with great chemistry -- at any moment a new desire, judgment or turn of events can cool or upset things.

As wonderful as it may seem or be, romantic love is usually based on undependable subjective reactions which make it very chancy.


To keep love alive, romantic love needs to grow into a higher and more stable form of love -- a more mature true love.

Mature true love doesn’t arise from subjective chemistry as romantic love does. It arises from conscious will. It doesn’t just happen. It’s a deliberate free choice made at a clear, calm moment of conscious self-possession: to commit, care and give unconditionally to another person. At this level one fully accepts another -- failings and all -- 
and places their well-being on a par with their own.

So if you’re seeking true and lasting love, don’t look to accidental chemistry ... look to a higher-will capacity.

That’s where the power to produce lasting love lies. At a mature consciously willing level, two people not only select and deliberately choose to love each other, they make that choice daily, again and again and again, continually growing their feelings of love.

Thus, while romantic love may only be an capricious accident of human nature, true lasting love is a deliberate ongoing creative act of mature human will.

Goodness and joy to all, Joseph.


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